Having recently reread Viktor Frankl’s “Man’s Search for Meaning” for a book club, we had a lot of discussion about how one goes about finding their purpose.
I’m
a Blue Zones fan so I’m aware that having a sense of
purpose was one of the “Power Nine,” those aspects of life that help people live longer and healthier.
There
are various TED talks that relate to finding your purpose. Oprah has a new book “The Path Made Clear: Discovering Your Life’s Direction
and Purpose,” and there are a variety of life and entrepreneurial coaches that
have made careers out of teaching people how to do this.
What
helped me understand the “how to,” but it’s also the basis for many of the
books, Blue Zones, videos and life coaching, is the Japanese idea of “ikigai.” Dating back
to at least 794, during the Japanese Heian period, there is no English
equivalent to this word. However, it’s often used to describe why you get up in
the morning.
The
Japanese psychiatrist and author of What
Makes Our Life Worth Living (ikigai nit suite) Mieko Kamiya explains, ikigai is similar to “happiness” but has a subtle difference
in its nuance. ikigai is what allows you to look forward to the future whatever
the way you feel right now. It is what gives you strength, resilience and hope
when tragedy occurs. Whatever it may be, it is a source of energy and inner
light. Japanese people believe that the sum of small joys in everyday life
results in more fulfilling life as a whole. In short, ikigai is both about purpose
as well as finding happiness.
The
Venn diagram above shows how the convergence of four primary elements result in
your ikigai. It’s not about achievement or what other people think, but rather
finding the combination that works for you.
What
you Love (your passion)
What
the World Needs (your mission)
What
you are Good at (your vocation)
What
you can be rewarded for (your profession)
Unfortunately,
most of the ikigai diagrams include what you can be paid for versus what you
are rewarded for. If you are retired, or don’t work for other reasons, it’s
important that you recognize rewards other than a paycheck.
Interestingly
Richard Leider, an executive life coach, has based his practises on ikigai but
looks at purpose as more of a calling. Are you using your gifts on things you
are passionate about in environments that fit your values? His “A Guide to Unlocking the Power of Purpose
can be a helpful tool. It’s free, but since it includes exercises, it’s
probably best to print it out..
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