Whether it’s the
Blue Zones’ Power Nine, or the
latest research on happiness, having and knowing your purpose-why you get up
every morning- is a top property for a satisfying, if not longer life.
How you are affected
by a chronic condition can greatly impact your sense of purpose. While the
caregiver may believe their role is to care for their charge, they can be at a
loss once that task ends. Those who are compromised by illness may wonder what
possible purpose they could now serve.
Purpose is often
viewed by what we do or how we fit within a family or group-medical provider,
volunteer, parent, spouse, caregiver and so forth. However, like many things in
our culture, we have turned “knowing our purpose” into a problem when it’s
actually something that is an integral part of our being.
Quantum physics is
using scientific methods to confirm what the Buddhists have been teaching for centuries-
we are all connected. "All things, mutually supportive and related,
form a living cosmos, a single living whole." From
the smallest atom, what happens to one, impacts everything else.
I was reminded of our
connectivity when watching the 16 minute documentary “Slomo.”
"Slomo" Jon Kitchin |
Jon Kitchin, a.k.a.
Slomo, was a neurologist trained in psychiatry who dropped out 15 years ago to
spend his days skating. Miserable as a doctor, a chronic condition helped him
decide to retire and move to a studio apartment a half-block from the
boardwalk. His slow-motion gliding to music became a portal to happiness.
There are those who would think that Kitchin lost his purpose when he gave
up medicine for skating. The looks of
joy, cheers and hand slaps of the people interacting with Slomo as he glides along
would say otherwise. He has found his “bliss,” which in turn he shares in a
very public way.
Many of the things we identify as our purpose are transient. Parent,
spouse, caregiver, worker etc. evaporate as kids grow up, marriages and jobs
end, patients heal and so forth. However, the fundamental aspect of our
belonging to something large and vast never changes.
If you think about it, since we all impact and contribute to the larger
picture all the time, shouldn’t our primary purpose involve being as positive
and mindful as possible? This may be a difficult concept to understand or
accept, but it serves as an important reminder particularly when we feel “purposeless.”
Ultimately, no matter how compromised or lost we may believe ourselves to be, we
still can achieve our primary purpose by being mindful of how we interact with
each other and the world around us.
To take this just one step farther, I think of Joseph Campbell’s comments about
finding your bliss, which Slomo seems
to have found. Kitchin is operating at the deepest sense of
being, going where his mind and body want to go versus what society may deem is
most appropriate for a doctor, let alone one who is almost 70. Interestingly, it was because of a chronic condition that Kitchin was able
to embrace who he was, letting go of the life he thought society expected of
him.
Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor |
In closing this post, I’m reminded of Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, the famous
neuroanatomist, who suffered a life-altering stroke at 37 years of age. She
ended her now famous TED Talk with the following comments, .... we have the power to choose, moment by
moment, who and how we want to be in the world. Right here right now, I can
step into the consciousness of my right hemisphere where we are -- I am -- the
life force power of the universe, and the life force power of the 50 trillion
beautiful molecular geniuses that make up my form. At one with all that is. Or
I can choose to step into the consciousness of my left hemisphere. where I
become a single individual, a solid, separate from the flow, separate from you.
I am Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, intellectual, neuroanatomist. These are the
"we" inside of me.
Which
would you choose? Which do you choose? And when? I believe that the more time
we spend choosing to run the deep inner peace circuitry of our right
hemispheres, the more peace we will project into the world and the more
peaceful our planet will be.
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