Study after study is demonstrating that not only are humans wired to be social, but more importantly, those with the strongest social networks are healthier and live longer. Research Suggests a Positive Correlation between Social Interaction and Health
Chronic conditions
can be very isolating for a host of reasons including: no longer able to work;
limited energy to socialize; fear of how people will respond to you; have
limited time due to caregiver responsibilities etc. Add to this living in a
rural or isolated area, having no means of transportation and/or naturally
being shy, and it’s very easy to find yourself feeling quite alone.
Cut to the
Chase-Three things you can do to increase your social circle:
• Join a group
and become involved. While a condition specific group (e.g. Diabetes support
group) is very useful, 12 Step groups (e.g. AA) can serve the same purpose and
many people find general community groups to be a good way to build friendships
and reduce loneliness. Churches, businesses, libraries and communities have all
sorts of groups, such as a quilting circle, theater group, reading
group etc. While organizations like
Rotary are very useful to members and community alike, they do require dues, which
for many is an expense they can’t afford.
If your only option
is on-line, explore condition specific support groups but try to arrange in person meetings. People say all kinds of things on social
media sites like Facebook that they never would in person. As helpful
as the digital connections can be, we need face-to-face contact.
• Check out
Meet Up. The goal of this
site is to revitalize
local community and help people around the world self-organize. Meetup believes
that people can change their personal world, or the whole world, by organizing
themselves into groups that are powerful enough to make a difference. Living rurally, I’ve been amazed at the
wealth of free social opportunities that are now available thanks to this
website. I even know people that have met “the right one” through this network.
• Make the
first move-be pro active. Call, e-mail or text family, friends, work
colleagues or neighbors and make a suggestion about getting together. It can be
as simple as suggesting you meet for a walk or coffee. If you see a local organization
needs volunteers, sign up. If you know a neighbor needs some help, go over and
be the person you’d like someone to be for you. Since we have glorified the "too
busy" culture, don’t be upset or take it as a rejection if people don’t respond
to your suggestion for getting together.
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